Thursday, January 10, 2019

Who You Are Matters.


               I come from this place, that some people think is a city, that others believe is a Spanish state, and that few have never heard of, but one that I think is really beautiful: it’s called Morocco. Unlike what you might have heard or seen in movies, my country is not only a land of sand, with camels, and people speaking languages you will never understand. It is also about modern cities with buildings and financial centers. Morocco is at the confluence of two worlds, and I have been myself raised in two cultures, the Moroccan one, that is more religious, with customs that are close to what we call the MENA (Middle East North Africa) region, and the French culture - having studied in a French school - got me to know more about Europe and the occident. This upbringing in a multicultural environment fostered my desire for freedom and pushed me to study in the USA. I know fairly well where I come from but saying that I know where I am going would be to lie, yet that doesn’t mean I am not going anywhere. At the moment, I would like to pursue a Master’s degree in France or the UK after graduating, and I am interested in corporate finance, audit, management, technology and computer science but I mostly want my work to enable me to travel. I plan to get there first by graduating from my bachelor’s degree, and do some internships to have a more clear career plan.

When it comes to how I am like my parents, I am meticulous like my father but also sometimes head in the air like my mother. We all love to travel, have a great sense of family and love to visit family members from time to time. What makes us different is the way we question the world around us. I find it necessary to question my religion and my beliefs while my parents don’t spend enough time in doing so.

Saying that I have developed expectations for myself totally on my own is not totally true, because of course, parents also have expectations from me, and before I even knew what expectations meant, someone had to set them for me, but growing up I learned that I was the only one knowing what I was capable of, and therefore that expectations had to be set by myself. One guy that surely knows how to set himself expectations, which is also one of my models is a filmmaker called Casey Neistat. He works with passion and this is what makes him successful.

I feel a special connection with wolves typically because I have the same deep desire for freedom they have. As far back as I can remember, I liked four particular trees at my grandmother's, because they were used as goalposts when I played soccer with my cousins.

My Rising Sign is in 26 Degrees Aries.
My Sun sign is in 25 Degrees Capricorn. 
My Moon sign is in 20 Degrees Taurus.

PS: for those wondering why the title is expensive teapot, it is just the literal translation of my name from Arabic.



14 comments:

  1. I sincerely enjoyed reading this since I just visited Morocco last May. It was such a unique country, I have never been anywhere like it. While I read you describe how you embody the blend of cultures I completely understood what you were saying because the blend of cultures is so evident everywhere you go, especially in Marrakech.

    I hope you are able to pursue your masters degree in Europe! That would be pretty incredible.

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  2. Claire:

    I find it admirable that you question your religion and beliefs, and think differently.

    Good luck on your master in France or the UK!

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  3. Hi,

    I have heard about Morocco before, yet haven't heard of the details you provided. I admire your journey from another culture -- and continent -- to come to USC.

    I hope that you're able to find the answers you're searching for during your time at college.

    -Garrett

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  4. I love that your name has such a unique meaning to it. I wish my name had some meaning behind it.

    Since the beginning of freshman year, I have been able to escape the radar of my helicopter mom and travel to a different place during the winter and summer breaks. I hope to visit the beautiful country of Morocco!

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  5. I absolutely love the way you write about Morrocco - I've never been but have heard many fantastic comments. I also appreciate that you have been brought up in multiple cultures, as I truly believe having this background differentiates a person greatly. Getting your next degree in the UK or France should be fantastic - I have many friends who study in those places now and I'm sure you've also heard great stories.

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  6. Interesting choice of title! I've been wanting to visit Marrakech ever since my parents went there 2 years ago.

    The Uk is a wonderful place to study and live in, and I must say that after your time at a tier-one institution like USC, it will broaden your horizons even more. Best wishes!

    - Angad

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  7. Your description of Morocco is fascinating and only motivates me further to travel to that region of the world.

    While reading the section where you discuss how you are both like and unlike your parents, I could have sworn I was reading about me. I too have similar traits from both parents and differ in that I am more questioning and curious about the world around me.

    Best wishes as you travel the globe,

    Grant Nunley

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  8. Hi Ghali,

    I've heard incredible things about Morocco, I would love to visit someday. It's amazing that you were able to experience several cultures growing up- I'm sure that has had a major impact on how you lead your life.

    While I don't really know much about the youtube/vlogging world, I've heard about Casey Neistat several times; I guess that's a testament to his hard work and social reach!

    I look forward to getting to know more about you during the semester!

    Best,

    Allegra

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  9. Ghali,

    What a cool story! I have wanted to visit Morocco for the past few years, and your awesome description makes me want to book my flights today. I enjoyed reading about your two cultures and the unique perspective you have. I can tell you are very curious and driven. I also hope to pursue an MBA, and I never thought about studying abroad, but that could potentially be a really great experience. I look forward to hearing more about all you have accomplished!

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  10. I love how you relate to the trees at your grandmothers house because you used them as goal posts. I think that being able to have fun playing soccer while being u official and using nature as your play ground has a more meaningful impact on the memory.

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  11. Morocco was one of my favorite places I have ever been to, hearing you talk about it just makes me want to go back even more. I’m so happy you were in a French school that made you want a more international experience which ended up with you studying at USC. I wish you luck in pursuing a career in corporate finance.

    Olivia

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  12. I can relate to people having incorrect assumptions about the middle east. My dad is from Tripoli in Libya and it's much more beautiful than people or the media make it out to be. Additionally, Casey Neistat is my favorite youtuber I think I've watched almost all of his videos, super inspirational guy. I don't understand how he wakes up so early to run though, pretty crazy.

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  13. Hi! It was really interesting to read about what you wrote. I actually studied in France for a year of uni and while I was in France took a trip to Morocco (Marrakech). It was such a cool experience and it was amazing to see the french influence in the country- as well as the african and middle eastern cultural parts of it as well. What part of Morocco are you specifically from?

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    1. Hi hannah! It makes me happy to hear that you enjoyed your trip to Morocco! I am from Casablanca and went to Marrakech during the winter break!

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